Thursday, May 6, 2021

5.6.21 Roofing Project

There was a service opportunity in our church ward early in April. Even though the farm was screaming for attention my good husband spent as much time as possible and then some more helping neighbors with a very challenging roofing project. Harold and John spent more time there. This was a unique old construction model roof. There's not a lot of support there for my big men. 
Thankfully a farmer friend brought his lift truck with cage and that was a better spot for GReg to work from. 
That's my John on the right and Harold on the top. The other young man lives in the house. 
Getting the tar paper on and getting tin cut. 

One man in our ward use to work in roofing and was the project lead. I'm thankful the boys could learn a new skill and could share their youthful energy with people who needed help. 
This was a steep multi challenging roof. 
John was the primary tin cutter for a day. This became a three Saturday project. 

We were relieved to hear the work was done. It was really hard to have them gone for all this time but it all worked out, Mark was able to endure tractor driving and I spent a lot of time in there as well. There are so many opprotunitites to learn and grow. I feel stretched like silly putty but I'm still here and probably better off than the beginning of April so all is well. Again my mother heart swells seeing my guys give a true blessing to a family in need. We are well. 

 

Wednesday, May 5, 2021

5.9.21 Pigs and Kids

In preparation for the upcoming fair the kids had to submit their pig pictures. Who would have imagined we would be so friendly with pigs?? They are surprisingly friendly reasonable to work with. 






The kids also had a fun activity days where they launched bottle rockets. We have some great activity days. It has been very eye opening to work with the kids and to enjoy learning with them. I have great co-leaders. 


Millie making cookies. Bruce waiting hopeful for some cookies. 
These super cute girls getting ready to go to the farm with dad. 

A favorite co pilot in the trac. 
Reed the go to for all things farm with Mark down. He was helping me fuel up the tractor. 

 The work never stops and I'm thankful for their commitment to being part of the team. They are my pride and joy! 

5.5.21 Irrigating Lessons or Is there no other way?

For years my view as we sat at our kitchen table has been of the neighbors field. We would watch him set tubes and grow beautiful green alfalfa. I have always hoped to be able to farm that piece of ground because it is what we see most. We got that opportunity this spring. I was so excited. no one said a word we just proceeded forward with preparation. I disked most of the field a bit curious at the fluffy dust but all in all it worked up well. We had fertilizer spread and then took my dad up on his offer to bring a more flood irrigation helpful tractor to plant it. John learned to do that. The guys found a few broken places of ditch and did some cement work to repair the washed away sections. I thought we were ready to go. 
My dad brought some tubes, and we were ready to start. We got to the field and Aliza informed me we had to shovel the ditch. She got the crew to work. I shoveled a small section, too. 

The workouts began now. I have not shoveled much as an adult and not a lot as a kid either. In the beginning of this project my biggest fear was that I would prove to be too weak or soft for the task. How thankful I was for experienced wise kids who knew the jobs that had to be done and how to do them. I love that they don't think too much less of me being a novice. It's an interesting trade off to be the learner instead of teacher when doing farm work on the bench. Yet, I did multiple trips to the field all day.  I shoveled and drove up and down rows with them and without them. Sometimes I stayed home and cooked and sometimes they did. 
She with the meager help of the younger kids shoveled a lot more. I went to work on corrugates. 
Greg showed up to give expert instruction. A slight picture of the ditch repair. The girls were sad they didn't get to put their names in cement too. I would have had them come in but he knew what had to be done and had them shovel corrugates until dark so we would be ready the next day when they would be in school. He's a lot tougher than I am but it instills confidence in the kids because they learn to do whatever hard thing is required. And shoveling dry dirt is much better than wet. 
A clean ditch full of water. Step 1. 
Little did we know the work that awaited us. See all those extra muddy spots. Well my novice disking job created hills and valleys every valley washed away. The rows would not hold with the amount of water we needed to send to get to the end of the quarter mile rows that were so so dry. Not to mention all the alfalfa roots that dammed up debree and further caused floods. 

These kids were troopers shoveling and shoveling and pulling and pushing alfalfa roots and shoots out of each row. There were hundreds of rows. At this point near the beginning I was so overwhelmed at the enormity of the project. To walk each row to the end. Even with a huge army or helpers we were spending all our time in the field. Needless to say life went on pause. The house turned into a wreck as little kids were left with Mark who watched but didn't stop all the chaos. Meals weren't prepared as we were all fighting the dirt and the water. 
In my growing up years this would have been enough. Set the tubes do some minor shoveling to make the rows match and move on to the next task. I was utterly devastated when the realization came that here on the bench every 5-8 feet we would have to shovel or pull or correct some problem in the row. I was so bone thirsty and tired at the end of working with 4 rows. Yet we persisted because this is a short water year and we must use what we can we get it, not to mention the significant investment in seed and fertilizer we could not turn back.  
A few things happened in between that made all the difference. The big kids being experienced knew how to keep the water going. They tackled the project and made it work. Oh the blessing of many hands lighten the work. Then Lloyd showed up. He too knew how to do this and worked to get more rows down and showed the kids how to adjust flows and brought some PAM an agricultural product that gels the soil to slow the water to increase absorption. His help was truly courage building to me. 
Then the Landlord and kind neighbor tried making the rows deeper. We unfortunately didn't test those rows until a day later. But oh glory be they went down unattended and they pulled the rows straight from the ditch so we didn't have to shovel in rows from ditch until planting marks. Oh it was a huge step forward. There was a better way!!! I spent as much light time as possible driving up and down the field re-packing the rows and making them deeper. Yet after that the tubes could be set and after a little shoveling the water ran on it's own and soaked that dry field. 

Super duper helpers. Addie and Harold in the back ground. My heart swelled watching these super kids getting the project done. The little kids spent time both in field and playing beside the field. 

After a day or two of being fried we found the work hats and long sleeve shirts. The little kids got pretty cooked but learned to cover up when working. 
John is a lot like grandpa a steady and sure irrigator. He keeps chipping away at the problem until it's solved. I loved spending time with my older kids who are mostly gone these days working in town. 
Lia is the cutest copy cat she was trying to shovel like the big kids. I love that she wants to help. 
A deep row and the first corn coming up. Not sure where the water came from to sprout that corn but none the less it was there last night as we set the last row of the field. 

 As I left yesterday I was surprised and touched to see this rainbow. Usually rainbows are to the east not west. And there was no rain yet. However, after a long hard week I was touched by the symbolism of the rainbow that God would not flood the earth again and yet there would be water. We had so many lessons about gospel principles this week. The Lord loves Effort!, The gospel and bringing people to Christ is the Lord's Work, The Savior is our Advocate/helper/Savior just like Grandpa showing up to help us when we couldn't do any more. The importance of daily Living water. Time together, time spent outdoors in heat, cold, wind, sunrises and sunsets. It is good to be a family. 

We celebrated with root beer floats last night choosing to relish the fact we got it done. I know we have so much farter to go but for now we will rejoice we did it- with a lot of help from my dad and Greg's dad. We are blessed by very concerned parents and by opportunities to grow beyond where we are right now. Life is good. 

Tuesday, April 20, 2021

4.20.21 The good stuff

Life feels pretty heavy right now. Trying to figure out financial things always weighs me down. I have learned life works out and I shouldn't be so concerned but if I don't worry and work through it it won't be ok. So here we sit working through another phone tree and hoping for the best. Yet as I try to use my time constructively and I look through pictures I see again and again the good stuff. The strength of married life, the challenge and peace of a family working through life together. The smiles of loving kids, the growls of frustrated personalities, the closeness of a lot of people in one space. 
This lady has a heart of gold. She loves unconditionally and completely. She accompanied us to visit some sad lonely ladies yesterday and she was so good to wrap her small arms around their wastes and show and tell them of her love for them. I admire her insight to love others. She is a bright spot in our home. 
We were all so happy to have Anna home. I'm sure she is where she needs to be at college but it was sure nice to have her back in the mix. 
Poor Addie is a minimalist and we just keep bringing stuff in. Mark has his assortment of movement aides. HE is doing well and has only slipped once. Addie "accidentally" poured some water on the floor that he amazingly found to slip on. "Oops," with a big smile she walked away. She's his biggest fan and mightiest foe. 
Lia trying to show us she can use crutches too. All the kids have tried hopping on one leg a time or three since Mark has been injured.

A throw back, on Harold's date they did not believe he came from such a large family. While I was driving the tractor I scrambled to find somethings showing all of us. Poor Aliza with her wisdom teeth smile. Yes we are many but we are blessed enormously. 

I'm thankful for strength from prayers. I'm thankful for having so much. Aliza was shocked when I informed her we officially fall well below the poverty line based on our family size. She said mom we have a house, clothes, food, we are not poverty. I agreed, we have all we need and then some. It takes effort and conscious choices, but we live an abundant life. For that I am so thankful! 

We were called upon to teach our young women confidence by the young women's president in our ward. I see my daughters as confident and capable. I don't believe confidence comes any other way but through expectations, experience, and example. I miss my kids who are called upon so often to go elsewhere but I'm also thankful that they are known to be who to call. I'm thankful they do a good job. I'm thankful for my husband's leadership and ability to take care of us and teach us to see and be the good stuff. We are blessed. 



 

Monday, April 19, 2021

4.19.21 Prom

While the fields needed disked, the neighbors needed help putting on a roof, and cars were waiting to be fixed Harold slipped away for a Prom far far away in Idaho. His cousin set up a date and begged him to come be part of his friend group. For some reason we consented and Harold after completing his State Automotive competition packed himself up and went to the date. 
He did spend 3 hours helping with roof after working late the night before on the broken cars. He has learned to work hard and knows that complaining doesn't change the fact the job has to be done. I love his ability to get things done. I'm so thankful for his competence and skills that have helped our family tremendously. 
I appreciate his willingness to keep his word, and the loyalty he displays to friends. Peers seek him out to advise and listen to him. He seeks after those that may not be seen by the masses. He's chosen to be good. He was delighted to present RC cars to his brothers this week. The high squeal of tires is a constant right now as the kids race cars and entertain the baby. 

All day we waited and wondered what he was doing now? Finally we got pictures and were thrilled to see such a lovely group of youth. There is always a lot of to, a lot of commitments to keep but there has to be time for some adventure and recreation. We are thankful for the many hands that made for a memorable experience. A big thank you to my dad for loaning Harold a suit so he could be appropriately attired. Harold even stands like my dad in some of these pictures. I hope that he will be like in more ways than just similar sized. I hope he will seek to be kind, wise, and thoughtful. We are blessed.